Methinks Phillz is more worried abut the copper in a blue uniform than the copper with electrons
Seriously though I agree there must be a way. So I think a way forward is to start by isolating where the problem is Phillz.
Have you had this happen with any other trailers? If not try another one and if the problem is still there then likely it is in the car. If not then it may be a problem in the trailer - see shootsie's suggestions as they would be where I would start.
Alternatively try the trailer in another treg - you are in Brisbane, perhaps go for the upcoming gettogether there and using your powers of persuasion try with someone else treg, oh and have a look at their set ups to look for any differences to yours.
Check if there is a problem with non led lights. If not then there is a load issue and you may not have solved all the problem with the adaptor. If it persists then you know you have a wiring issue which is independant of the led light issue so you will need to start tracking that one down step by step.
Looks like it might be a slow process but there has to be an answer as oilslurper said. :confused2:
First step try to isolate where the problem is, car or trailer. Cheapest way to do that is get another treg and trailer with led lights and swap over. if problem follows trailer, then trailer it is. If problem follows car then you know where to start.
Hope this helps