The OEM hitch is the only one rated for the Touareg's full capacity.
Also, to tow at full capacity, you also need a tow bar and ball assembly rated to over 7700 lbs. Many (most) are only rated to 6000#.
Since there doesn't seem to be a comprehensive list of what you need for towing with a Touareg in this forum, I thought I'd type one up...
OEM setup:
- OEM Hitch
- The correct bolts for the hitch (apparently there's chance the wrong bolts were shipped with the OEM hitch. I don't know the specifics, since the bolts that shipped with mine were the correct ones for my '08 T2.) Just be aware that you may need to order the correct bolts from your dealer.
- OEM trailer controller (plugs into the car's wiring harness and controls the trailer's lights -- includes a wiring harness going from the controller to the trailer hitch. This harness will not plug directly into your trailer's wiring! See item #5 below.)
- Trailer controller re-coding. As shipped, the trailer is set up for European lighting systems which are incompatible with US lighting systems. The trailer controller must be re-coded to switch it over to US specifications. Your VW dealership can do this, OR it can be done with anyone with a VAG-COM cable that is compatible with the Touareg.
- 7-pin RV plug (available from VW or from Waytek Wire -- bolts to the hitch and plugs into the trailer controller wiring harness..)
- Towing Bar, which is inserted into the hitch's receiver.
- Towing Ball (make sure to get the size appropriate for your trailer!)
- Brake controller (needed for trailers over approx 2000#.)
- Wiring for brake controller (2007 and later models. 2006 and earlier models appear to have this wiring in place, which plugs into the trailer controller's wiring harness. You WILL need to make this yourself if your Touareg does not have the factory harness.)
Aftermarket
- Hitch (Curt, Draw-Tite, etc...)
- Aftermarket trailer light controller (this needs to be spliced into the Touareg's taillight and other electrical circuits.)
- Wiring from the light controller to the trailer hitch.
- 7-pin RV plug (available from VW or from Waytek Wire -- bolts to the hitch and plugs into the aftermarket light controller's wiring harness..)
- Towing Bar, which is inserted into the hitch's receiver.
- Towing Ball (make sure to get the size appropriate for your trailer!)
- Brake controller (needed for trailers over approx 2000#.)
- Wiring for brake controller (2007 and later models. 2006 models have this wiring in place, which plugs into the trailer controller's wiring harness. You WILL need to make this yourself is your touareg does not have the factory harness.
The two approaches are fairly similar. The biggest difference is the aftermarket hitches are rated only to 6000# and MAY require minor trimming around the bumper cover's hitch opening.
The next biggest difference is the way the trailer's lights are controlled -- either by the factory controller or an aftermarket one. The OEM controller plugs directly into the car's wiring harness, while the aftermarket controller must be spliced into the car's wiring harness. (Sorry, the aftermarket controller can NOT be used with the existing OEM controller's wiring connections -- the electrical protocols are very different.)
Using the OEM trailer controller does get you some nice features. If the Touareg's alarm is on, unplugging the trailer's wiring connector will set off the alarm. Also, if you have a burned-out light bulb, a notification will be shown on the MFD. Lastly, it saves you from cutting up the factory wiring harness to install the aftermarket controller.
There are two downsides to the OEM trailer controller. First, it can only handle 100 Watts of load from the trailer. If your trailer has a lot of lights on it, you will have problems (they'll flash on and off, every two seconds or so.) Second, the controller will not work with LED lights. LEDs use so little current that it fools the trailer controller into thinking the bulb is burned out. You can get around that by installing incandescent "cheater" bulbs or resisters to pull more current, but that sort of defeats the purpose of LED lighting, doesn't it? (Personally, my trailer uses a mix of the two in every circuit, which keeps me below the 100 Watt limit, but above the "light-bulb-is-burned-out" limit.)