but all four door handles shouldnt be bad should they. Any way I was wondering if anybody new how to test the antennas and handles to see if faulty other than vag-com?
Aside from Vag-Com or just using the handles I know of no other way. Either of those is easier than pulling a handle to check anyway. If you don't have a Vag-Com and want to do any troubleshooting, repairs, or keep your Touareg for very long I would strongly recommend purchasing one. I bought mine five years ago for my A4 and wondered why I didn't buy it sooner, best purchase for the Audi and VW by far.
As for all four being bad, I wouldn't think it's out of the question. There were lots of bad stories about the system and handles needing replaced but I would also generally agree with you, all four? All four also still points to the KESSY module itself having a bad component. If you get access to a Vag-Com (or buy one) try clearing the codes and see what works and which handle causes it not to work. It could be one handle causing a short but the problem there is it may burn out the MOSFET(s) each time that handle shorts out, (I hope not for your sanity).
Let me ask one more question. After your KESSY rebuild was there any change or did stuff still not work? I had to rebuild mine twice to get good solder joints all the way around, (guess I needed some practice).
Hope that gives you some help though I'm not sure I've given you anything new.