If you get the factory tow hitch it will come with a wired pin connector underneath the hitch but you still have to buy a 7 pin adapter to interface the VW connector.
Yes, when the connector is plugged in, it will pull in various other Towing maps which can slow down a trailer by braking first when arriving at a corner while going too fast. The treg will measure yaw, pitch and roll, steering angle, wheel speed, ambient temp, throttle position, which gear its in. It will hold a higher RPM before shifting gears and hold it in gear slightly longer when decelerating for engine braking. System will also switch of rear proximity sensors, side sensors, disable the auto open/close rear hatch and give you a nice pictogram on screen. But if your are towing something that has brakes then a suitable brake controller module still has to be fitted to the connector under the dash on the drivers side.