Without codes, and MVB data, we are all just guessing.
Get actual data in order to take the proper action\approach.
It's a young vehicle, so DPF requiring replacement is very unlikely (unless ofcourse, I'm the guy selling you the DPF and I want to buy some nice stuff with my profits)
It's more than likely one of the many supporting components that's failed (read an EGT sensor, pressure sensor, other supporting system component) which has cause the otherwise "autonomous" active regens to take place.
Once you isolate the issue, you can address it.
A proper tool like VCDS could tell you when your last regen happened, how many attempted\requested\interrupted regens have taken place, distance and time between successful ones, etc.... not to mention soot and ash load readings.
You can either insist on a proper diagnostic to get all these answers, or you can throw expensive parts at it based on the "claims" of those who will make $$$ off your part chucking escapade.